[ ... His mind's wandering a bit, caught in the past, but. ]
You can't take and not give back equally, but the same is true--giving too much results in an imbalance. And to be fair to you, stranger, I don't think it's stupid. It just means you care, if you're putting this much thought into the ceremony. You want it to be meaningful to them, too, right? But you shouldn't have to burn yourself up to make sure they've got what they want. I don't know who you're planning on being bonded to, but if they care about you, they'll understand.
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[ ... His mind's wandering a bit, caught in the past, but. ]
You can't take and not give back equally, but the same is true--giving too much results in an imbalance.
And to be fair to you, stranger, I don't think it's stupid.
It just means you care, if you're putting this much thought into the ceremony. You want it to be meaningful to them, too, right?
But you shouldn't have to burn yourself up to make sure they've got what they want. I don't know who you're planning on being bonded to, but if they care about you, they'll understand.