Yeah, it's probably different for people who want to try and stay here anyway. But even though you've got a lot going on back home, it's not as if you can do anything about it while you're here, right? [He understands why she'd still feel weighed down by it, but at the same time, it doesn't feel right to him to be chained down because of it the whole time she's here.]

So if there's any time that it'd be okay to take a bit of a break and try some new things, it's now while you can. Lingering on what's happening back home when you can't change it from here and you have no idea when you'll be back there is going to get to you.