video; un: zewu-jun

[zewu_jun]

Name: Lan Xichen
Date: forward-dated! 2/20
Format: video


[ Lan Xichen is resting on a rock beside what appears to be a calm lake. For those that frequent the Forge, they might recognize it as a nearby landmark one can pass on the route. He greets the network with a seated bow. ]

I apologize for the interruption, but I wonder if I might ask some questions to those who have time?

If you have a Bond, what prompted your decision to choose that person? I know Bonding is highly encouraged, but finding a suitable match might be complicated, and one cannot necessarily be trained in choosing a good partner. With only my own experience, I must assume not many other worlds have a custom like this. It's not the same as choosing to marry or finding a cultivation partner.

How do you know if you have made the right choice? Or, if you choose not to Bond at all, what are your feelings on such a connection?

I'm afraid I have based most of my judgments on the partnerships I know from my own life. Up until now, perhaps I have misunderstood the relationship that forms.

Comments

[zewu_jun]

You never considered if you were compatible?

[ He is openly shocked by that. How can you rush into a relationship without even considering if you match well with your partner? What about the weeks of planning and comparing resources and potential effects on their status and connections? He is mystified. ]

It is good that you became such close friends, but what would you have done if you were not compatible?

[prettyrocks]

[ Tsutha shrugs, remaining nonchalant about the whole affair. She really doesn't see what the big deal is. ]

Uh, I dunno? I guess we would have decided to break the bond and bond with somebody else instead?

[zewu_jun]

Break the bond? [Tsutha! How can you say something like that so easily?]

But you are deeply connected. If you break off the bond after already exposing so much to each other, wouldn't that be awkward?