darkcharge: (117)
✘ Vanitas ([personal profile] darkcharge) wrote in [community profile] aefenglom2019-11-02 09:57 pm

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Name: Vanitas
Date: 11/2
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As so many people ask questions, advertise, or whatever on this thing I figure I have nothing to lose doing the same.

You see I have a particular problem. A pest problem. I'm looking for creative ways to rid myself of this little bug that seems super intent on sticking around. Normally I wouldn't bother with something like this but my usual methods of getting rid of unwanted things?

Well. It's not working.
firewalled: (You can make it on a wish)

[personal profile] firewalled 2019-11-09 01:51 pm (UTC)(link)
i mean you have to come at it the right way
if you get angry or sound hostile they arent gonna want to listen
which sucks
firewalled: (Time to raise a flag for the ceasefire)

[personal profile] firewalled 2019-11-10 02:45 pm (UTC)(link)
say you want to understand why he doesn't think coming back together is a good idea
give him time to explain and ask questions and try not to get pissed
when hes done try to explain why you want to and let him ask questions
maybe in the end therell be some compromise or one of you will understand a little better and change your mind
firewalled: (If you want to)

[personal profile] firewalled 2019-11-11 05:14 pm (UTC)(link)
well maybe he'll change his mind then
either way it's worth a try i think.
firewalled: (get up get out and get done)

[personal profile] firewalled 2019-11-12 10:41 pm (UTC)(link)
sounds like a good plan
good luck man
i dont know what thatd be like really but i cant imagine its easy for anyone