sealeted: (oh I bet)
Kishinami Hakuno (岸波 白野) ([personal profile] sealeted) wrote in [community profile] aefenglom2020-03-10 08:08 pm

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Name: anonymous (Hakuno Kishinami)
Date: 3/10
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It's a rather sensitive subject that I'd rather not directly address, but I'm out of my depth, here.

Is there a way anyone can think of that I can use to convince my bonded Witch to just... not sleep with people during the full moons? Just, that one night out of the month. Is that an unreasonable thing to ask? Should I try to find some other solution?
lucubrates: (uruz)

[personal profile] lucubrates 2020-03-11 03:23 am (UTC)(link)
A bond requires trust and care. Do you not have that with them?
lucubrates: (munu systrungar)

[personal profile] lucubrates 2020-03-11 03:28 am (UTC)(link)
[ Something is SUSPINACH and she is curious! ]

It seems as if boundaries between the two of you are quite set. Is this true?
lucubrates: (ðe him mid resteð)

[personal profile] lucubrates 2020-03-11 03:36 am (UTC)(link)
A bond is still a relationship between two people. You may have agreed that certain things are not to be discussed between the two of you for whatever reasons. I am not personally privy to what your bond is like, so I must ask.

I do not believe embarrassment is your issue here as you made a public discussion about your concerns. For that reason, I am wondering if something happened that is not a topic you typically broach with them.
lucubrates: (sidgrani sigfadhir)

[personal profile] lucubrates 2020-03-11 03:50 am (UTC)(link)
Anonymous, I do not know the nature of your relationship with this person. What your bond is like and what you sought with creating it is a mystery to me. But if it is their business away from you, then I believe it can be kept so. You sound as if you merely wish for their to keep their privacy, though your words also imply that you two are entangled together in a curious way.

Your options are to either to discuss this with them, dissolve your bond, or inquire at the coven about it. I do not know the exact side effects but I do believe it is possible to mute your bond if necessary. I would recommend a healthy discussion before that, but perhaps you will discover more information than I about bond muting.
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[personal profile] lucubrates 2020-03-11 03:56 am (UTC)(link)
I wish you luck on your journey then, stranger. Should things not improve, do know that it is not frowned upon to dissolve a bond.