You're talking about a significant bond between two people. In your case, if I understand your intentions correctly, possibly amongst three people. It's stranger to me that people wouldn't feel strongly about it.
If that's truly how you feel then you should communicate that to the one that makes you feel the most supported and who most closely shares your views.
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If that's truly how you feel then you should communicate that to the one that makes you feel the most supported and who most closely shares your views.