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Can't believe this is gonna be my first post on here, awkwaaard lol.
This place is full of romantics. I've met a bunch of Witches and Monsters who're getting together in pairs, three-of-a-kinds, and some are even going for full houses. I'm in a bit of a pickle and I'd like some advice on the problem, since everyone's probably way better at figuring this stuff out than me. And, actually, it's more like a couple of problems? Because I really, really like two separate people.
I know this is a story as old as time and if I don't be careful I could make a huge mess of everything, but I genuinely don't know what to do with myself. "You can't have your cake and eat it, too," is a really relevant expression to use here, I feel, and overall I've got so little experience asking one person out let alone multiple. Both of them are unique and couldn't be more different, which is probably what's making the decision on who to try for so difficult. They're both funny and attractive, but one's super smart, affectionate, and dynamic, while the other's strong, willful, and considerate.
What are your thoughts? Am I overthinking it, or being too callous? Having crushes on your friends is normal, but how about moving forward with both of them? Sorry if this is weird, or no one actually gives a shit. I do, and I hope to hear from you. Thanks!
P.S. You don't need to get all detective on me just because I'm anon, but if you do figure out who this is? Please don't be a dick and spread your knowledge (totally wishful thinking, but I think I've been cool enough with everyone and I hope they don't think I deserve that).
P.P.S. If the people I'm talking about figure out who this is? Yikes, first of all, but no pressure. I mean it.
This place is full of romantics. I've met a bunch of Witches and Monsters who're getting together in pairs, three-of-a-kinds, and some are even going for full houses. I'm in a bit of a pickle and I'd like some advice on the problem, since everyone's probably way better at figuring this stuff out than me. And, actually, it's more like a couple of problems? Because I really, really like two separate people.
I know this is a story as old as time and if I don't be careful I could make a huge mess of everything, but I genuinely don't know what to do with myself. "You can't have your cake and eat it, too," is a really relevant expression to use here, I feel, and overall I've got so little experience asking one person out let alone multiple. Both of them are unique and couldn't be more different, which is probably what's making the decision on who to try for so difficult. They're both funny and attractive, but one's super smart, affectionate, and dynamic, while the other's strong, willful, and considerate.
What are your thoughts? Am I overthinking it, or being too callous? Having crushes on your friends is normal, but how about moving forward with both of them? Sorry if this is weird, or no one actually gives a shit. I do, and I hope to hear from you. Thanks!
P.S. You don't need to get all detective on me just because I'm anon, but if you do figure out who this is? Please don't be a dick and spread your knowledge (totally wishful thinking, but I think I've been cool enough with everyone and I hope they don't think I deserve that).
P.P.S. If the people I'm talking about figure out who this is? Yikes, first of all, but no pressure. I mean it.
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You know how much it sucks to get wet underwear off too? A lot.
[ just gonna live a freeballin' life from now on tbh. ]
But yeah. That probably works. Just do whatever comes to mind and go with that. I don't know. I'm not an expert in this area.
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You seem like you've got the heart and not the mind for it, which is totally not a diss. It's good, because overthinking it does suck. I wish I'd have just asked them straight up, but I've still got time to do that ig.
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I know this is easier said than done considering we never really want to do anything until it's too fucking late to but every second that ticks by is another second to make that change or do that thing. Time can suck and really isn't our friend a lot of the time. Make the most of it while you can before you realize you're all out of it and have nothing or no one left.
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trevor's words resonate oddly with jonas, giving him a such a thrill of panicked concern that it makes his hand tighten white-knuckled around his watch. running out of time, losing everything and everyone... aren't those things the most perfect summation of his worst fears?
how could he forget?)
I know it hurts me to wait, but I care more about their levels of comfort than my lack of time.