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Can't believe this is gonna be my first post on here, awkwaaard lol.
This place is full of romantics. I've met a bunch of Witches and Monsters who're getting together in pairs, three-of-a-kinds, and some are even going for full houses. I'm in a bit of a pickle and I'd like some advice on the problem, since everyone's probably way better at figuring this stuff out than me. And, actually, it's more like a couple of problems? Because I really, really like two separate people.
I know this is a story as old as time and if I don't be careful I could make a huge mess of everything, but I genuinely don't know what to do with myself. "You can't have your cake and eat it, too," is a really relevant expression to use here, I feel, and overall I've got so little experience asking one person out let alone multiple. Both of them are unique and couldn't be more different, which is probably what's making the decision on who to try for so difficult. They're both funny and attractive, but one's super smart, affectionate, and dynamic, while the other's strong, willful, and considerate.
What are your thoughts? Am I overthinking it, or being too callous? Having crushes on your friends is normal, but how about moving forward with both of them? Sorry if this is weird, or no one actually gives a shit. I do, and I hope to hear from you. Thanks!
P.S. You don't need to get all detective on me just because I'm anon, but if you do figure out who this is? Please don't be a dick and spread your knowledge (totally wishful thinking, but I think I've been cool enough with everyone and I hope they don't think I deserve that).
P.P.S. If the people I'm talking about figure out who this is? Yikes, first of all, but no pressure. I mean it.
This place is full of romantics. I've met a bunch of Witches and Monsters who're getting together in pairs, three-of-a-kinds, and some are even going for full houses. I'm in a bit of a pickle and I'd like some advice on the problem, since everyone's probably way better at figuring this stuff out than me. And, actually, it's more like a couple of problems? Because I really, really like two separate people.
I know this is a story as old as time and if I don't be careful I could make a huge mess of everything, but I genuinely don't know what to do with myself. "You can't have your cake and eat it, too," is a really relevant expression to use here, I feel, and overall I've got so little experience asking one person out let alone multiple. Both of them are unique and couldn't be more different, which is probably what's making the decision on who to try for so difficult. They're both funny and attractive, but one's super smart, affectionate, and dynamic, while the other's strong, willful, and considerate.
What are your thoughts? Am I overthinking it, or being too callous? Having crushes on your friends is normal, but how about moving forward with both of them? Sorry if this is weird, or no one actually gives a shit. I do, and I hope to hear from you. Thanks!
P.S. You don't need to get all detective on me just because I'm anon, but if you do figure out who this is? Please don't be a dick and spread your knowledge (totally wishful thinking, but I think I've been cool enough with everyone and I hope they don't think I deserve that).
P.P.S. If the people I'm talking about figure out who this is? Yikes, first of all, but no pressure. I mean it.
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i was training to become what's known as an agent
kind of like law enforcement, except we deal with supernatural cases instead!
i had to train my entire life bc it's really elite and hard to become one lol.
but i managed it. stayed in it for a while, and now i'm here!
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(wait, fuck)
That probably was not the most mellow question to ask, I'm just shocked bc it sounds like a career-type-thing and you look myyy age? 18-20 maybe?
That's insane though, you should be super proud of that. Screw them for thinking's it's weird... if it was smth you were passionate about, then I'm glad you went for it. Must've been like a dream come true huh?
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it's the kind of thing some people choose to start training for when they're young. sometimes people do it later in life though, that's ok too!
i just knew it was my dream ever since i was a kid!
i appreciate your support though, thanks!! :D
if you know how to fight then we should spar sometime >:)
if not then i can totally teach you some moves hahaha!
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(what a surefire way to out yourself, jonas...)
I don't know how to fight, but if you wanna teach me some stuff then I'm not gonna say no to that. And if you need to practice/train more, then I've got the perfect magic to help out with all of that.
What kinda supernatural stuff did you handle?
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when's yours btw?
magic, huh? sounds good to me. let's meet up sometime soon and i'll show you some stuff that can get you out of sticky situations. :D
let's see... there was an angry werewolf one time who went on a rampage during a full moon, so we had to calm them down -- oh and there was another time when a regular guy was being a jerk to someone who had vampire fangs, so i stepped in to mediate that! just trying to keep the peace!
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And I had no idea you meant ACTUAL supernatural beasts, I thought you kinda meant you went to houses as a spirit medium kinda stuff. Where you pretend you can talk to ghosts for money. But I should've known.
That's insane, you're like?? a paranormal cop.
I've got some experience with the supernatural, too. It's pretty bizarre mostly everyone here's got some ties with things that normally don't exist (at least in my world).
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and yup! that's why bailey and i weren't super surprised to see them when we got here. but spirit mediums exist, too! bailey's actually one of them, i think? i dunno, there's all kinds of stuff in new lodgins.
hmm. i know i said "law enforcement" earlier but that might've been a bad analogy. :P we work separately from cops; i'd argue that we're more like...not-so-secret agents? super heroes? idk does that make sense?
you should tell me about your experiences? :) i'm interested in hearing them!
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That's crazy, though, maybe I should hire you to get rid of my world's ghosts. But that'd require money and actually being able to get back there, which is probably not the best idea rn.
Cops and I don't have a good history, so I'm glad you're a secret agent. You ever hear that song Secret Agent Man? That's you LOL
But my experiences are like really scary and idk just bizarre all around. You ever run into hateful, vengeful, dickhead ghosts on your journeys as a superhero?
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and sadly, idk if i'd be able to do that without someone who can see ghosts. so...maybe you're better off hiring bailey instead! lol. :)
oh i know exactly what song you're talking about. :P you're too kind! LOL. i can totally teach you some "secret agent moves" sometime if you're interested!
our squad wasn't really sent on ghost-related missions since we didn't have a spirit medium, but oh boy, i'm sure they exist... is that what you went through?
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I remember you talking about Bailey, but I didn't know he was a medium. Maybe I should talk to them. Maybe they'd have some serious insight for me.
I'm glad you didn't run into any, tbh. It's beyond scary, idk. There's nothing you can do against that kind of force, you know? Like you're just at their whim.
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but yeah, that sounds pretty terrifying. :/ not only are they intangible but they also can do stuff you can't really retaliate against?
i'm sorry to hear that. :(
at least there doesn't seem to be anything like that here?
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And watch out, bc out in the Wilde there definitely is. We all went on this trip to the northern outpost once, to like help them set it all up and stuff? Saw this whole rundown village of ghosts. The whole place was in shambles, so the cwyld must've got them or smth.
So creepy. Don't go alone up there, okay? Or in the Wilde in general. Always have somebody with you.
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thanks for the head's up though.
i appreciate it a lot, jonas! :)
[ she's onto you buddy!! ]
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Including me being anon like a total loser LMAO
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keep me updated! i hope things work out for you! :)