text, un: anonymous.

[coherer]

Can't believe this is gonna be my first post on here, awkwaaard lol.

This place is full of romantics. I've met a bunch of Witches and Monsters who're getting together in pairs, three-of-a-kinds, and some are even going for full houses. I'm in a bit of a pickle and I'd like some advice on the problem, since everyone's probably way better at figuring this stuff out than me. And, actually, it's more like a couple of problems? Because I really, really like two separate people.

I know this is a story as old as time and if I don't be careful I could make a huge mess of everything, but I genuinely don't know what to do with myself. "You can't have your cake and eat it, too," is a really relevant expression to use here, I feel, and overall I've got so little experience asking one person out let alone multiple. Both of them are unique and couldn't be more different, which is probably what's making the decision on who to try for so difficult. They're both funny and attractive, but one's super smart, affectionate, and dynamic, while the other's strong, willful, and considerate.

What are your thoughts? Am I overthinking it, or being too callous? Having crushes on your friends is normal, but how about moving forward with both of them? Sorry if this is weird, or no one actually gives a shit. I do, and I hope to hear from you. Thanks!

P.S. You don't need to get all detective on me just because I'm anon, but if you do figure out who this is? Please don't be a dick and spread your knowledge (totally wishful thinking, but I think I've been cool enough with everyone and I hope they don't think I deserve that).

P.P.S. If the people I'm talking about figure out who this is? Yikes, first of all, but no pressure. I mean it.

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[coherer]

Oh, yep, you got it.

(he really needs to curtail this text speak when dealing with people from other worlds...........)

They don't have to run that deep, do they? Everyone's like "go in 100% or not at all!" And I'm like okay but relationships on Earth don't go that way most of the time. They start small, going on dates and having fun, then they become something more if all parties are feeling good about it. I think that's what I'd want to have happen, of course I can't speak for the others.

You're right that you don't really know a person, it's the wanting to that makes me want to try for this. Backfires are something I can handle. I don't mean to keep prying, but is that what you're worried about?

[bloodwit]

[...] I will concede you have a point, there.

[ unheard of, that. ]

If you can handle it going less than in your favor, then I commend you for that. As to your question -- yes. Maybe I am concerned about that.

VIREN 😭😭😭

[coherer]

Being commended feels pretty sweet, I gotta say. Thanks.

(validated.)

I'm one of the ppl who're like "oh, take the risk, live the way you want," but that doesn't jive with everyone's philosophies. Take your time, I'll take my time, and we'll eventually figure it out.

Sometimes you need to give yourself a little push to balance out the options, though, if you're more serious than other people. That'll give your feelings a fair fighting chance.

[bloodwit]

[ viren feels pretty stupid, having this conversation turned, having aired out his fear of having his delicate feelings (ego) dashed to an anonymous stranger. he dislikes it.* ]

As you've said. We will see...

Best wishes as to [ ... how to put this. it turns out about as stilted as anyone could achieve. ] managing your romantic endeavors.

[coherer]

A "good luck" works perfectly fine. To you, too, though.

(thanks for your advice, dad.)