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Can't believe this is gonna be my first post on here, awkwaaard lol.
This place is full of romantics. I've met a bunch of Witches and Monsters who're getting together in pairs, three-of-a-kinds, and some are even going for full houses. I'm in a bit of a pickle and I'd like some advice on the problem, since everyone's probably way better at figuring this stuff out than me. And, actually, it's more like a couple of problems? Because I really, really like two separate people.
I know this is a story as old as time and if I don't be careful I could make a huge mess of everything, but I genuinely don't know what to do with myself. "You can't have your cake and eat it, too," is a really relevant expression to use here, I feel, and overall I've got so little experience asking one person out let alone multiple. Both of them are unique and couldn't be more different, which is probably what's making the decision on who to try for so difficult. They're both funny and attractive, but one's super smart, affectionate, and dynamic, while the other's strong, willful, and considerate.
What are your thoughts? Am I overthinking it, or being too callous? Having crushes on your friends is normal, but how about moving forward with both of them? Sorry if this is weird, or no one actually gives a shit. I do, and I hope to hear from you. Thanks!
P.S. You don't need to get all detective on me just because I'm anon, but if you do figure out who this is? Please don't be a dick and spread your knowledge (totally wishful thinking, but I think I've been cool enough with everyone and I hope they don't think I deserve that).
P.P.S. If the people I'm talking about figure out who this is? Yikes, first of all, but no pressure. I mean it.
This place is full of romantics. I've met a bunch of Witches and Monsters who're getting together in pairs, three-of-a-kinds, and some are even going for full houses. I'm in a bit of a pickle and I'd like some advice on the problem, since everyone's probably way better at figuring this stuff out than me. And, actually, it's more like a couple of problems? Because I really, really like two separate people.
I know this is a story as old as time and if I don't be careful I could make a huge mess of everything, but I genuinely don't know what to do with myself. "You can't have your cake and eat it, too," is a really relevant expression to use here, I feel, and overall I've got so little experience asking one person out let alone multiple. Both of them are unique and couldn't be more different, which is probably what's making the decision on who to try for so difficult. They're both funny and attractive, but one's super smart, affectionate, and dynamic, while the other's strong, willful, and considerate.
What are your thoughts? Am I overthinking it, or being too callous? Having crushes on your friends is normal, but how about moving forward with both of them? Sorry if this is weird, or no one actually gives a shit. I do, and I hope to hear from you. Thanks!
P.S. You don't need to get all detective on me just because I'm anon, but if you do figure out who this is? Please don't be a dick and spread your knowledge (totally wishful thinking, but I think I've been cool enough with everyone and I hope they don't think I deserve that).
P.P.S. If the people I'm talking about figure out who this is? Yikes, first of all, but no pressure. I mean it.
[video] Gilgamesh is missing a frame of reference for A Few Things in life... like talking to people
[ excuse you, jonas?? AUO jokes are reserved for Enkidu. and Hakuno. one of whom loves his every word. and the other of whom lacks all sense of humor, since Gil's jokes are excellent. in his own opinion.
otherwise ... he just squints at this text, because what in the fuck is "LMAO"? is this man having some heart failing, or perhaps a stroke, at the excitement occasioned by his love(s)? ]
If you do not require advice, for what reason do you solicit it? The contradictions of the masses are lost upon me. In my life, I simply acquired everything I desired. Though others cannot do so as easily as I, to say you should not be passive is obvious.
It must be that hesitation and doubt are part of your passion ritual to sweeten the end result. If so, you need only have said so from the start.
poor gil, has all the money and babes in the world yet not a lick of tact......
jonas can't exactly knock the impressive confidence, but his phrasing is needling at him. people come from all over, man, he tells himself with a deep sigh, get it together. you can be chill about this.)
No, I mean I don't need advice from someone who's gonna be an asshat.
But I get it, I guess. You've got it all, we've got nothing, yada yada yada. My hesitation and doubt only come from me not knowing much about taking more than one "lover" and being able to make sure everyone involved is 1) interested to begin with and 2) comfortable.
You know?