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keet "QUIT ACCUSING ME" yeehawson ([personal profile] marmoron) wrote in [community profile] aefenglom2020-07-01 08:03 pm

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Name: Anonymous
Date: 7/2 (after new mirrorbound arrive!)
Format: Text

question. what's supposed to go into a bonding vow? how did your bonding ceremonies go? are you supposed to wear something nice? bring presents? would appreciate some advice.

[ Help out an anonymous space mullet? ]
galrarm: (you're a jerk person nathan)

[personal profile] galrarm 2020-07-02 10:23 pm (UTC)(link)
[ Hmm. He has... a feeling, here. ]

That's true. But it's true for the other person, too.
That's where compromise comes in. Even if making them happy makes you happy...
Would they be okay with you sacrificing so much for them?
galrarm: (I don't even know her!)

[personal profile] galrarm 2020-07-04 01:08 am (UTC)(link)
[ Ah, that hits in a way Shiro hadn't quite expected. ]

In my experience, sacrifice is pretty subjective.
It's probably not the easiest thing to bring up, but maybe you've done more for them than you realize.