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[darkestbefore]

Name: Yona
Date: 6/1
Format: Text

[ Considering how long she's been here now and how... enthusiastic her Coven mentors have been about her finding a Bond, Yona's finally worked up the courage to try and use this strange device for herself and ask for some advice. ]

How did those of you who have made Bonds know that your partner was right for you? Was it just something casual and easy? Was it something deeper than that? Did you have a hard time finding someone when you first arrived?

[ Was that too intrusive? Insecure? She hopes not... ]

And those of you who haven't yet... what is it you're looking for?

Comments

[fiddlestick]

It doesn't have to be like keeping secrets, it's more about respecting personal boundaries?

Like one of my bonds, she's like a sister to me. So I don't exactly wanna feel every thought and feeling she has when she spends time with her boyfriend, and she doesn't want me eavesdropping either- so we give each other privacy!

[darkestbefore]

Ah, I see! [ Yes that does make much more sense. ] Those are certainly things that would be... awkward to share, to sya the least.

[fiddlestick]

Veeeeery awkward, yeah.

So it's usually best to pick a partner that has your shared view of privacy levels.

[darkestbefore]

Or, I suppose, someone who doesn't have a lover...

[fiddlestick]

I mean...that's one way to do it I suppose.

[darkestbefore]

Although that does seem like a rather arbitrary requirement, so I think I like your way better.

[fiddlestick]

Haha, it does make things easier than searching for a single person.

But really, just try to find someone you feel like you can spend a lot of time with. That makes it much easier.

[darkestbefore]

It's good advice, and it does help, so thank you for that. I'll take your words to heart.

[fiddlestick]

It's no problem! I hope you're able to find a good bond!