Kai Gracen (
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Video, un: pointyears
Name: Kai Gracen
Date: 7/24
Format: Video
[ The man on the screen isn't (yet) changed to a monster, but he's got pointed ears, purple eyes, and is delicately inhuman in a half dozen small ways. He flashes fangs when he smiles. ]
I'm Kai. Nice to meet you, etcetera, etcetera.
I have a couple of questions, and I'm hoping some people will take pity on a new person.
[ He ticks up his fingers, question 1. ] What's a man got to do to find bullets around here?
[ He shows off one of his Glock pistols. ]
Secondly, how important is this bond thing? Is it actually necessary, or is it another bullshit institution that people think has power because they buy in to it? Like marriage, or honor.
Date: 7/24
Format: Video
[ The man on the screen isn't (yet) changed to a monster, but he's got pointed ears, purple eyes, and is delicately inhuman in a half dozen small ways. He flashes fangs when he smiles. ]
I'm Kai. Nice to meet you, etcetera, etcetera.
I have a couple of questions, and I'm hoping some people will take pity on a new person.
[ He ticks up his fingers, question 1. ] What's a man got to do to find bullets around here?
[ He shows off one of his Glock pistols. ]
Secondly, how important is this bond thing? Is it actually necessary, or is it another bullshit institution that people think has power because they buy in to it? Like marriage, or honor.
video; un: jin_guangyao
As far as the issue of Bonding is concerned, unfortunately there really is no choice in the matter one way or the other. I can hardly speak to the witch side of things, but surely you have no desire to act like some sort of beast?
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[ At the question, Kai bares his teeth, showing off the fangs again. ] It wouldn't be that new for me.
I'd rather act like a beast than be under someone else's control.
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As for bonds, why do you think it puts you under another's control? There is an emotional connection, to be sure. But that is all. [That's actually a very big all but he'll pretend it's not such a big deal.]
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Emotional connections put you under other people's controls.
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[That's not entirely wrong, but... he smiles.] I think there's more than one type of connection, don't you? You'll find that there are a few sorts about who are willing to make it a more businesslike proposition, if you're concerned about influence one way or another.
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Thought it helps people sense their moods and the coven talked about binding souls. That doesn't exactly sound like business to me.
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I'm sure you'll no doubt collect similar responses from other Mirrorbound. It does make things difficult at times, but then again, not all of us would rather be animals. There are ways to block off some of what passes from one to another as well.
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What sort of ways are there?
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Practice visualizing a barrier between yourself and the other person. And avoid touching directly, as it only increases the feelings passed between one another. It's not a perfect solution, but as advice I was once given, at seems at least somewhat effective.
Are you fortunate enough to have any others from your world here, by chance?
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It wouldn't be fortunate to have them here. [ Kai can just imagine Ryder and what he'd do in this place, how concerned he'd be for Kai's well-being in that overbearing manner he has. And Ryder's by far the best option. ] None of the humans I know either, far as I can tell. [ Some of them might have been something of a relief, but they'd respond to this post if they saw it. ]
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I did see someone once mention that they ended up bonding to the first person they met who seemed equally threatened by the proposition of bonding. [He chuckles lightly.]
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Frankly I don't have any concern one way or another about a given Mirrorbound I've never met before. I would offer to assist, as someone who has no interest in controlling another, but I'm afraid my own Bonded did ask for my Bond to be with him alone. [And he's a Monster as well, so that hardly solves the problem. And he also isn't so fond of sharing his feelings, but at least he has an excuse there of commitment.]
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[ Kai lights a clove cigarette, takes a drag on it for a moment, before he remembers to be polite. ]
Appreciate the info though.
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You're welcome. I'm always happy to assist a fellow Mirrorbound.
[He does hesitate briefly before adding another remark. If it feels like he's pushing bonding more than his initial 'no choice' let on...]
I suppose in that line of conversation, it may be worth mentioning that, well, feral behaviour can cause problems for others in the city as I'm sure you can imagine. Aside from the obvious consequences, it really reflects poorly on us as a group. So please understand that, even if you prefer that sort of bestial behaviour over Bonding, you would be well advised to keep it outside the city walls and away from those it might harm.
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I get the picture. I'll make sure no one has to take me down.
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