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[ua_duibhne]

Name: Diarmuid Ua Duibhne
Date: 6/20
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[This is such a sensitive issue that Diarmuid's gone to the trouble of changing his user name from "Lancer" to the less conspicuous but creatively bankrupt "Question". Whether or not he's still identifiable through some other means is a mystery to him but he's willing to take that chance to find the answers to something that's begun to weigh on his mind as of late.]

Is Bonding with someone without your other Bonded partner or partners knowing the equivalent of being unfaithful? I understand that it can be separate from a romantic relationship but it's just as emotionally involved, is it not?

Comments

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[justbeingknife]

Dunno if I'd go that far, but it's probably best to give everyone a head's up. Why not, right?

I mean, what if your first partner hated your second, but ya didn't know till ya did the deed? It'd be awkward as hell.

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[ua_duibhne]

Ha... awkward's one word for it. It would be hard enough to cover up a relationship with someone without the issue of empathetic bonds to contend with.

I think I'd be even more insulted to find out unconsciously.

[justbeingknife]

Personally, what bothers me is the idea of someone else in my head in the first place. I know, it ain't telepathy, but someone else's mood can seep into yours, right?

That's one thing if ya trust your partner. But then if there's someone I don't even know in there sloughing off their psychic problems...

[ ugh ]

Ripple effects, ya know?