text; un: anonymous

[beariot]

Name: ANONYMOUS
Date: Before the event part 2
Format: Text

I swore I'd never make a post like this but I really am in a predicament and could use some perspectives.

Okay. So.

Let's say you are considering a pretty big life change. For example, moving in and sharing a living space with a significant other that you became close to, here. But both you and this person have bonded! And you're all REALLY close with said bonded! Like, also significant other levels. Or family. Just really really close.

How

do you manage all of those moving pieces? Can you? I feel like I'm going to lose my hair stressing over this.

Comments

un; nocturne

[synchroswim]

iiiiiiits not really moving in with a uh
significant other for me but i... sorta ended up moving in with a bunch of people who were bonded with each other and are super tight with each other. me? nnnnot so much at the time for a bunch of reasons but

i just kinda... went with the flow of stuff i guess? still kinda am but its getting better
and talking, even if its kinda awkward sometimes :(

[beariot]

I'm glad to hear it wound up working out for you, in the end. But I think the existing connections complicate my situation a lot more.

I honestly kind of wish I had the luxury of being on the outside, here.

[synchroswim]

man i wish i thought that way. the loneliness was starting to wear on me big time

are you and uh
this is gonna sound kinda weird but how many bonds do you and this other person have? like... is there anything stopping you guys from doing a three-way-bonding sorta thing?

[beariot]

Well we both have three bonds each, so that's not really feasible.

[ Just... casually doesn't mention that one of those is shared between them, already, but if she was being honest, Fang was the least of her worries. ]