text; un: anonymous
Name: ANONYMOUS
Date: Before the event part 2
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Date: Before the event part 2
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I swore I'd never make a post like this but I really am in a predicament and could use some perspectives.
Okay. So.
Let's say you are considering a pretty big life change. For example, moving in and sharing a living space with a significant other that you became close to, here. But both you and this person have bonded! And you're all REALLY close with said bonded! Like, also significant other levels. Or family. Just really really close.
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do you manage all of those moving pieces? Can you? I feel like I'm going to lose my hair stressing over this.
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Everything you just put out gets said face to face. You go from there. It is both easier and harder than my statement makes it seem.
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un: aquila
In short, simply ask yourself, "What are my options?" Do you want to be miserable or do you wish to enjoy whatever remains of your life?
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It's more like
gambling on a potential greater amount of happiness, but the risk is possibly alienating a lot of people you really care about.
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voice; un: jinsei
[ Suddenly he feels sort of lucky that he and Eileen are only bonded to each other. Not a big mess to sort out. ]
Communication is key, but I'm sure you know that. You're not all planning on living together, are you?
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[ She's trying not to say there's someone they're BOTH bonded to because that situation is probably unique enough it'd give the whole thing away... ]
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action
[Akko slides her watch across the table towards Chariot. As is typical of a teenager who has nothing else to do but wait (in this case, waiting on water to boil for tea), Akko pulled out her watch and began perusing what had been posted recently. It's then that she notices the highly anonymous post from Chariot, which is probably a moment of concern at a minimum. Surely, Akko has figured out the real identity of this anonymous individual. Especially being Bonded to her and sitting only a few feet from her.]
Maybe you should give them some advice since you got a lot of boyfriends and girlfriends.
[But bless her, it's Akko we're talking about here.]
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But then it was worse. And now her soul wasn't so much peeling away as making a Silent Hill-style transition to a nightmare world. ]
H-hold on, just because I'm in a similar situation doesn't make me an expert. I barely hold all of this together!
[ Hopefully deflecting with some blunt honesty of a different sort would keep her from needing to be bluntly honest about the actual topic at hand. ]
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text; un - nya
I let my bonded do it while I support him one hundred percent. When it comes to moving pieces, he does it better than anyone.
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text; un: styx
[...yeah, Styx isn't exactly the master of expert or nuanced advice here.]
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un; nocturne
significant other for me but i... sorta ended up moving in with a bunch of people who were bonded with each other and are super tight with each other. me? nnnnot so much at the time for a bunch of reasons but
i just kinda... went with the flow of stuff i guess? still kinda am but its getting better
and talking, even if its kinda awkward sometimes :(
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I honestly kind of wish I had the luxury of being on the outside, here.
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text; un: magicowl
2) I think the root of the problem is that you're trying to tackle everything at the same time and clearly by yourself. Unless there's something the other two from communicating like, I dunno - a blood feud or something, I think your best bet is to just sit down with the parties involved and talk it out. I mean, who knows, they might just be tearing their hairs out too.
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text | un: conquerorking
Or is the problem really that any of those people dislike each other?
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text: un; f*uckingusername
Anyway, someone already said it, communication's the key.
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And probably is a big part of what makes this whole situation so anxiety inducing.
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un: shirogane
Opening up avenues for communication can help mitigate some of that. But it's definitely possible to make it happen, if you're committed to it. Let everyone know their voice will be heard. If you care about each other, you'll find a way to make it work.
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Yes. A very selfish part of me wants this, and for everyone to be happy with it.
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