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[beariot]

Name: ANONYMOUS
Date: Before the event part 2
Format: Text

I swore I'd never make a post like this but I really am in a predicament and could use some perspectives.

Okay. So.

Let's say you are considering a pretty big life change. For example, moving in and sharing a living space with a significant other that you became close to, here. But both you and this person have bonded! And you're all REALLY close with said bonded! Like, also significant other levels. Or family. Just really really close.

How

do you manage all of those moving pieces? Can you? I feel like I'm going to lose my hair stressing over this.

Comments

[fuckingpassw0rd]

Yeah.



I mean I'm 53 and that type of shit would still be terrifying. The fact you're giving it any thought at all honestly is better than I could have managed.

Maybe do it during a dinner? Shit's easier to digest if you're eating or have alcohol in the bloodstream.

[beariot]

I'd have to have quite a bit of wine in me to consider that, and by that point I'd be in pretty big risk of going off-message.

Someone else suggested letter writing. Not the most direct, but a lot easier to control.