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[darkcharge]

Name: Vanitas
Date: 11/2
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As so many people ask questions, advertise, or whatever on this thing I figure I have nothing to lose doing the same.

You see I have a particular problem. A pest problem. I'm looking for creative ways to rid myself of this little bug that seems super intent on sticking around. Normally I wouldn't bother with something like this but my usual methods of getting rid of unwanted things?

Well. It's not working.

Comments

[firewalled]

okay so... maybe itd be better to talk that out
like find out why he doesnt want to be together with you
maybe he just feels more comfortable being his own person
or like, is worried about you with that

idk it sounds complicated but id say with something as complicated as that
communication is a big thing



[darkcharge]

It's hard to talk when the other party won't even LISTEN.

[firewalled]

i mean you have to come at it the right way
if you get angry or sound hostile they arent gonna want to listen
which sucks

[darkcharge]

That I'm even entertaining this...
Fine then. Explain the way I SHOULD come at him.

[firewalled]

say you want to understand why he doesn't think coming back together is a good idea
give him time to explain and ask questions and try not to get pissed
when hes done try to explain why you want to and let him ask questions
maybe in the end therell be some compromise or one of you will understand a little better and change your mind

[darkcharge]

My mind won't change. I don't want to continue as something that's only half of a whole.

[firewalled]

well maybe he'll change his mind then
either way it's worth a try i think.

[darkcharge]

We'll just have to see.
I am going to give it a shot either way.

[firewalled]

sounds like a good plan
good luck man
i dont know what thatd be like really but i cant imagine its easy for anyone