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Hiccup Horrendous Haddock III ([personal profile] thisisamazing) wrote in [community profile] aefenglom2020-02-02 03:08 am

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Name: "anonymous" (Hiccup Haddock III)
Date: Feb. 2
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some things recently came up and it has me thinking a lot. i'm not sure who else to ask this? the person i'd normally talk to is... part of it.

is it possible to have romantic feelings for more than one person at the same time? does that make you a bad person? i never had to consider it before because i thought everything would be simple, for me at least, but now it isn't so simple and i'm not

sure what to do

i don't want to hurt them


[ooc: Hiccup is posting anonymously but as this function isn't always reliable, let me know if you want him to anonfail! He's having some relationship troubles whoops.]
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[personal profile] zewu_jun 2020-02-04 07:51 pm (UTC)(link)
We can't predict the future or truly know the hearts of others, no matter how close we may be. You can only do what you feel is right. Others might not agree with that choice, but... It is not their choice.

And even if you remained silent, you might still lose them. Saying nothing may also become a regret.
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[personal profile] zewu_jun 2020-02-10 04:16 pm (UTC)(link)
You should not.

Perhaps what is right or wrong depends on the outcome itself. If I may be bold in saying so, the difference may depend on you.

But those are merely one stranger's drifting thoughts.
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[personal profile] zewu_jun 2020-02-13 04:00 am (UTC)(link)
Mm... Hope may be the seed of that outcome. It won't replace choice, but if you tend to it properly, it is more likely to produce something you want.

You seem honest and kind. I doubt ill will befall you for following that kind of heart.
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[personal profile] zewu_jun 2020-02-19 03:19 am (UTC)(link)
Then I wish you well.
At the very least, it will allow you to clear the air between you.

Good luck.