un: anonymous;

[thisisamazing]

Name: "anonymous" (Hiccup Haddock III)
Date: Feb. 2
Format: Text

some things recently came up and it has me thinking a lot. i'm not sure who else to ask this? the person i'd normally talk to is... part of it.

is it possible to have romantic feelings for more than one person at the same time? does that make you a bad person? i never had to consider it before because i thought everything would be simple, for me at least, but now it isn't so simple and i'm not

sure what to do

i don't want to hurt them

[ooc: Hiccup is posting anonymously but as this function isn't always reliable, let me know if you want him to anonfail! He's having some relationship troubles whoops.]

Comments

[beariot]

[ Hello, Ursula Callistis, professional disaster, nice to meet you. ]

Well yes that

is absolutely what I should do and I do recognize that. But there's a degree of difficulty to that conversation that I'm not sure I'm at all prepared for.

[thisisamazing]

at least you can have that conversation. i wish i could, but i physically can't. the longer you go without bringing it up, the worse it's probably going to be.

[beariot]

[ ... ]

It may not be what you want to hear, but you're absolutely right. And that anxiety isn't going to fade.

Ultimately, what you need to ask yourself is what's more important; your happiness in this world, or the happiness of someone else in another, and if those can be reconciled.